just what we need

As a female who survived an encounter with a man who (I think) had taken Viagra, I have to say "Just say NO!" Guys - I'd rather you have a bit of trouble and work through it than come running at me with a penile battering ram. That's a SURE way to never go out with me again. I find it fascinating that the media has almost completely ignored women in the realm of sex aids and/or sexual dysfunction. Lubrication is as important for women as staying erect is for men but I don't recall a big humongous outcry over KY jelly. I'm surprised there's no measurement for penis hardness in the popular culture. I guess you could measure the hardness by how much it dents if you press on it...

I realize that I'm just pissing and moaning. It's obviously a male-dominated society and that, in such a society, sexual dysfunction for men is a huge issue. What I just don't get is why men are so obsessed with having bigger, harder dicks and women, most of them, don't really care. I guess it's just one more way for women to see that their opinions mean nothing to men when it comes to sex. Yes - I do know that it really has nothing at all to do with the woman and everything to do with his idea of himself as a man. However, as a female, I would rather see a man invest a little time/money in a men's support group and gain some self confidence than invest in a performance pill. Given I liked him enough to get to the sex stage, I'm pretty sure I would enjoy self confidence more than a never-ending hardon.

If a man is more worried about what his buddies think of his ability to get it up than his woman's pleasure in the activity, why doesn't he just take the pill, parade his long, hard, shiny dick around in front of them for a while, wait till it wears off and then go see his gal? That we we don't have to suffer the boner that won't go away and he gets to show off how potent he is. It's a win-win guys, what do you think?